Beginning of it all

Many people have asked me how I met Xin Jiao.  Bottom line was that I was going through a divorce and I didn't want to get caught up in a relationship that could lead into a sexual one.  So I turned to the internet.

I need to back up a little.  I spent over a year in my dungeon praying, agonizing, and soul searching many many different things about my marriage that had fallen apart and the future God might have for me.

In that search I realized that I made several mistakes in my marriage; I did a lot of things right in my marriage; that basically I was a good guy; and that I would  marry again.  

When I asked God what to look for in a new wife He told me to look to China.  Now I know many will think I am full of baloney at this point but it really doesn't matter to me.  All that matters is that I follow what I believe God tells me.  Some might say that I really didn't hear from God and they are entitled to their opinion.  I am not about to follow other opinions.

I began looking on the internet in China.  There are literally hundreds of thousands of Asian women looking for a western husband.  Many are serious and many are looking to scam a man whose head isn't in the right place.  I ran into a few scams but since I believe God is leading me their schemes were quickly exposed.

I also met a few really nice women but we didn't really click.  But then I met Xin Jiao and boy did the fireworks begin to happen.  She is an amazing woman.  She is divorced and has two grown children.

This all seemed kind of surreal because though we could talk to each other and see each other on the internet we couldn't physically touch each other.